Unstable its better to understand than be understood , why not pick up some literature at some meetings and give it to them so it gives them some insight into whats happening , it does not help of you are being uncommunicative with your parents because after all they seem to be genuinely concerned . Why don't you get some info on Alanon and give it to them , or as Mike suggested take them along to an open meeting , its a family illness and a family recovery , do not cut yourself off through selfishness , take care.
Regards Stevie recovered 12 03 2006