Hi Flossy. That was a great bit of honesty and you'll benefit from it I'm sure. I'm lucky my girls are both good but it is constant 24/7 with no let up even if we really crave an hours peace. I think working on a plan for your youngest is a good idea even if it's an emergency plan for when it really hits the fan! My nephew had chronic adhd and I truly don't know how my sister in law managed....he's grown out of it now and is a lovely 18 year old young man now. Of course you know that the av will try any excuse to get its way in. I'm the opposite to you. No kids at home and my av is playing with me...so we must remain vigilant (I like that word lol) ....
Camery your girls night in sounded great! That's the kind of treat night we need now isn't it?
Enjoy the rest of your weekend xxx