Old 08-19-2016, 02:35 PM
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aliciagr
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Originally Posted by Skidaroo74 View Post
Thanks Aliciagr, Your post has given me some ideas and hope. I'll see if i can persuade him to talk to Cognitive Behavioural Therapist or something...
That would be right along the correct line of help I think. I see opportunity to unite and just say hey we have a baby coming. We both need to be at the top of our game. Sleep for both of us will get worse. Let's each look at ourselves and tackle any concerns we have. And if he doesnt now then a reminded after baby. Now is the time. There is lots of support for new parents and the stresses we are going through. If he won't at least you can maybe find someone to talk with so you dont have to keep fears or worries inside. Sometimes when we do this it can lead to our being resentful and actually making a small wall in the marriage.

I love my husband too. He is struggling right now. I'm doing some therapy and we are trying to find a good dr for him to work with.
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