something to think about.....WHY do you keep HIS drinking a secret? you don't have to answer, but you spent a lot of time and energy covering up.............why? are you afraid of what others will think of him..........or you? again, you don't have to respond here....but give it some thought. if you want to see your husband get help, somehow, then the TRUTH will need to be EXPOSED.
and no, he didn't dump out the wine for fear it may have gone bad.....it wasn't open and around that long!