Wow that's exactly right tromboneliness. I drove home in a rage last night thinking of a very long letter I was going to send my brother just to let him know he had it a lot better than I did his whole life and that she treated him WORLDS better than she treated me. My family (kids, fiance, close friends) reminded me that he cannot see it, no matter what I say or do and it's better to just let go. It is, but it's also frustrating. I have my next counseling session subject matter all ready to go LOL