Originally Posted by
zoso77 
Our goal, to paraphrase my clinician, is not to not make mistakes, but making sure the ones we do make are more sophisticated mistakes.
I like that, Zoso. I'll have to try and remember it.
Weakgirl - That's wonderful you want to work on yourself. Sometimes, it just takes time and effort. I don't have any advice to offer especially since it'll come down to the therapy that works best for you. I only wanted commend you on your self improvement efforts. By the way, The Ranch (from cynical one's post) was recommended to my husband by my marriage counselor (at the time) and his individual therapist. My husband ultimately decided not to go, but the therapists spoke highly of the place and encouraged him to consider it. Anyway, I wanted to pass that along to you.