My daughter is 12 and son will be 6 in a few days. Daughter says she is mad and hurt. I told her dad about this and he has not changed. Son says dad does not love us, I told him and he did nothing. Son says he does not think he is related to dad. Dad says he is sorry all this is going on, but he is at the bar as I write this. Only thing is my kids seem fine. They are happy and busy, but my husband is still here and I guess I will put up with this at least until they get older. Even though he is at the bar all the time and all the other stuff, there is only one thing that will force me to leave and that is cheating. It will be a done deal then.