Good feedback all around.
The unfixable problem is that we can't just have one, and using makes our lives unmanageable. Likewise, despite knowing this, we feel the urge to get loaded. There's not much to understand, and understanding it with no action doesn't net you anything.
The fixable problem is that at one point we aren't willing to stop using and we aren't willing to engage in the process of recovery, both of which are big changes.
The fixable problem is the place to focus. Stop using one day at a time, and get help. In Na I learned to do whatever it took, even the things I didn't want to. (and which frankly sounded stupid). - Oddly enough this worked.