Wells - it's funny (not so much) that you mention your long chore list because of no help, then the A wants to be kept company and entertained because they are bored! The AW is the same way - if she wants time alone, that's okay - but if I want to do something, then I'm being cold, or uncaring, or selfish. And her hobbies are texting, Facebook, and surfing the web.
Makes not one bit of sense.