Hey all,Kopfan I was reading your posts about getting back into life and I think that's something that bothers me, I feel like I'm just kinda hanging out and not drinking, however not really living either, I need some hobbies I think everyone says do what you liked before you started drinking but I was busy raising kids then so I never really focused on me,what do I like to do? Exercise, read,watch tv,go for rides around town, get coffee, go to eat but these are all activities that are solo,not really social but I dunno if that bothers me or not either, I just feel a mess,a user named Blueberry posted on another thread that "you can't microwave recovery,it takes time" I thought that was really cute and fitting for me,I want everything to be perfect NOW,it doesn't work like that I guess, just don't want to get stagnet in my sobriety and get that **** on this feeling, hope all are doing well today.