Originally Posted by
Determined1977 
The shame comes from all the questions... ur 38 have a masters and your a waitress??
welp, you could come up with a good reply:
"i know!! can ya believe i spent all that money and here i am doing a job that im happier in than any other job ive had!?!?!"
or
" yeah!! and the cook needed a doctorate to work here!!"
or
"yes, so i will really be greatful for the 20% tip you leave!"
that last one might not be appropriate, but i think its funny.
now, how about going and lookin in the mirror and telling yourself something like,
" what other people think about me doesnt matter because i love me today."
everything will fall into place. you WILL memorize the menu.
and it reads like this is just temporary? so good on ya for working double duty!
and thank you for helping our vets!!
i very proud of you for putting in the footwork to get your life straightened out.
did i mention