This is all a very good subject and read here. I know mine will be the same way. He is like was stated above, cannot live on his own and he needs a mommy. I am thankful to be fighting my way out of it. I am also sure she will pretend all is ok as I did for a little while until she cannot take it anymore. When I left my qualifier the first time and was 7.5 months pregnant he started dating a woman and told her within 3 days he wanted to marry her and have kids with her right away-who does that??? Anyways, I felt ok as I knew what I dealt with and how ashamed I felt of him being around with how he was and his past criminal record that came to light fast. It was embarrassing as he had no conscious about any of it. I can only imagine the feelings I will deal with when I know he has a new woman and is flaunting her about as he does. I love the comment above above about reaping all the benefits including the black eye.
Hugs and hugs and hold strong-you are out! Consider yourself VERY lucky.