She, surely, could use a good therapist...after she puts down the bottle.
You can't be her therapist....and, don't fall into the trap of trying to be.....
Like lots of people, she doesn't realize that she is responsible to look after her own happiness......
she has to face her own demons, if she is ever going to find any peace.
It is possible that if you stepped out of the line of fire...that she would have to look to someone (AA and therapists) who really COULD help her.....
dandylion