My first thought is….. Analyzing others has no benefit to us.
My second thought is, if her life truly bothered her and she wanted to put her past behind her once and for all…………she would. But instead she wears it on her sleeve and uses it as an excuse to stay just how she is drinking her life away because she wants to be the victim. When she says over and over again “I’m just a little girl” how many of the adults around her treat her like one? How many appease her, walk on egg shells, bend over backwards so that life runs smoothly?
My third thought is…..I think we often feel it’s just that simple…..we realize their root issue and believe it’s just a matter of them recognizing that then simply them working on it……..and BAME they are all fixed and the need to drink no longer exists…………it doesn’t work like that my friend.