Married her a week after we divorced...told the kids "when you left me I was lonely and she was nice to me, so I married her."
No responsibility there either, lol.
It was his kids' fault for moving with me. XAH moved on BEFORE we were done.
Hugs to you, I'm sorry. Mine also pays child support (though lies about his wages), and gives nothing at all extra regarding college plans, cars, insurance, etc. i figure they're the ones who will die facing what they've done and haven't done...and so will I--with pride.