Originally Posted by
TNTStill 
I think back about how I talked and treated people and how up and down I was. I was miserable and people that didn't deserve it got a good amount of that misery brought their way. There are still times that come where I think about the relationships I ruined through my choice to let alcohol take the driver's seat.
Most if not all recovering drunks deal once sober with the wreckage of their past. The working of the AA Steps has helped many to recover and helps one put a Program of making amends into action. Others may find their answers in the bible and attendance in church. I have known many who have been successful with either one or both of the above. Both have worked very well for me.
The best amends to offer friends and family -- us staying sober today.
Then we just watch the sober days and years add up.
Good luck,
M-Bob