Thank you, Dee. I'm sorry to start my thread like this.
I think I'm the most idiotic person ever. My ex husbands birthday was yesterday so I made him the chicken veggie casserole, left it in the fridge and also for his mom because I didn't think she would feel like cooking after the plane. I bought mini cupcakes for Alex. I fed his fish twice a day. Today, he's like you left the place clean but left a list of things that I should have done. I should have vacuumed before they came back, I should have made the casserole at my own place, I should have not used his bathroom because he saw that the soap was moved. I left that place pristine and I washed everything that I used and put it back. I bought my own groceries for them and bought a Tupperware container for what I made. I left my shoes outside the door before I walked in. I'm so done.