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Old 07-19-2016, 02:31 PM
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Soberpotamus
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It's a tough one to answer, to be honest.

You'll hear many, if not most of us, say "It gets better." In fact, there's a thread with that title created by Venecia not too long ago. Good thread, too.

Easier? Hmm. Dealing with urges and cravings does get easier. They happen less frequently and seem to lose power over time.

Life keeps happening, though. And not everyone has an easy life.

I think it's more accurate or more realistic to state that things get 'real.' And hopefully, as you grow in your sobriety, you develop your coping skills so that you can handle the ups and downs of life. I became aware over time that I was able to handle more and more stressors. And I was learning patience and perhaps, best of all, I was learning resilience and adaptability.
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