Anvilhead -I don't think Hank would be too happy with either of us if that happened!
I will say that I'm working toward it, but not yet ready to take that next step. I've moved forward a bunch emotionally and psychologically these last couple of months, but not quite to the point of pulling the trigger on the 'next big step'. I'm calmer, I understand me more; I understand her as an alkie more - so that is progress.
I'm sure I'll get there, I know I NEED to get there. Just right now doesn't seem right for me and God.
Hope that helped.