Originally Posted by
Readytolearn 
I am stuck in a similar situation. I'm new here even though I've been reading for quite some time. My therapist says to do what is best for your kids, but you can't forget what you need as well
Hi Readytolearn. If you are in a similar situation. I am hoping you decide to break out of it. It is hard as I am still fresh and trying to change my way of thinking as our qualifiers always manipulate us to feel we "suck " because they are suffering and it is just not right. It pisses me off that it took me this long to begin to change. I pray this change happens for you too. This site is a great start and can give great encouragement.
How is your situation similar? Is it jail? Emotional hurt/abuse? Dependency? The list goes on and on . I have a lot to learn too and would be happy to encourage one another to be strong. That is what tjis community is for.
<Squeezing tight hug>