Wells - when I first posted here several years ago, I gave the old "my situation isn't as bad, etc.". And, it most ways it was not. However, and this is a BIG however, it's bad ENOUGH for you to want/need to seek out this place for ideas, support, etc. Therefor, it's bad enough, and that's all that matters.
So, we're happy that you found this place, and found some comfort, support, 'friendship'. I thank the Good Lord everyday for this place and these people - it's been a life saver for me.
Stick around, and enjoy the next chapter of your life.
COD