Originally Posted by
Queenbee7 
I wish I would of HONORED my gut instinct soon after I met my husband.
There were 3 specific "red flags" that I felt deep in my gut soon after I met my husband, but before we started dating.
My husband was very kind and gentle and unassuming when I first met him and while he was pursuing me. However on two different occasions during everyday conversation something he said or how he said it sent a red flag straight to my gut. I ignored it.
Then on a different occasion I noticed him looking at me from across the room ( we were with a group of friends) and when I looked at him in the eyes the word PREDATOR flashed in my mind. Still I ignored it.
This relationship experience has taught me to NEVER ignore my gut reactions
I second that!!! My gut told me all along THIS IS WRONG. And I still married him and had children with him. I knew everyone around me was saying "what the he** is she doing (including myself deep down inside). It's amazing what our gut can tell us if we only just listened to it! I'm NEVER going to again ignore my gut instincts like you said.