I wish I would of HONORED my gut instinct soon after I met my husband.
There were 3 specific "red flags" that I felt deep in my gut soon after I met my husband, but before we started dating.
My husband was very kind and gentle and unassuming when I first met him and while he was pursuing me. However on two different occasions during everyday conversation something he said or how he said it sent a red flag straight to my gut. I ignored it.
Then on a different occasion I noticed him looking at me from across the room ( we were with a group of friends) and when I looked at him in the eyes the word PREDATOR flashed in my mind. Still I ignored it.
This relationship experience has taught me to NEVER ignore my gut reactions