As an adult child of an alcoholic ( and now one myself) please do all that you can to put your sobriety and family first. Each time we choose to drink we are making a choice to exclude something or someone. My Mother chose alcohol over me for as long as I can remember. My rational adult mind understands why she drank and Lord knows I know how hard it is to stop. But that inner child part still yearns to have been more important to her than a bottle. Your daughter obviously loves you so much and I hope you can hold onto that love and let it support you in your sober journey.