Originally Posted by
Forourgirls 
^ totally accurate. Narcs and sociopaths have no enpathy. None. The substance abuse just masks a much larger problem-THE problem-a personality disorder. Alcoholism is just the tip of the iceberg for these types. Quite a few of us here are dealing with just that.
Hi Forourgirls,
You may be interested in the thread I just started named "Cluster B Personality Disorders, Borderline, Narcissism and alcohol" ...
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...m-alcohol.html
I put it in a separate thread as I don't want to hijack the original topic of this thread.
I totally understand what you mean where you wrote "THE problem-a personality disorder".