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Badgerlock That's part of the problem. She is a very responsible and reasonable drinker. We have little kids and for her a relaxing drink after the kids go to bed helps her keep above the depression of stress. 100% she would be supportive, but the guilt of asking her to give up something that helps her to satisfy my needs is crushing for me. I feel so selfish and evil.
Bull. You are using that as an excuse to keep drinking. I recognize you in me.