^ I heard that too, sue. Time and time again. So damaged me to my core but fought my way back. He ain't worth it.
Aries-yep, been there with the creepy family and friend conversations...disgusted. If you want to know where my ex got his trashy low morals, look no further than the family portrait of his FOO and those select friends he shows his true self to. Truly. I did start fighting back and that's when my exs abuse really escalated. Awful that those words stick with you...and nothing takes them away. Time does lessen the sting.
Amy-your ex is not worth you spending one more second on him. You are going to be ok!!! And that voice will fade...it will!