I have made many friends in AA over the years.
I have lived in Tn for my entire sobriety, although I have also spent a good bit of time in Key West and among its recovering community.
I have not experienced what some of you are describing.
Sorry you all are, though.
My friendships include amigos in recovery and a fair amount of other folks I know through my line of work, the neighborhood, etc.
But, by all means, keep coming back.