I've felt that way in AA before, but not always. There are two things that bind people in the fellowship together: the common problem which is powerlessness over alcohol, and the common solution which is, as I understand it, a spiritual awakening as the result of the twelve steps. If either component is missing, it could be the reason you feel the way you do....maybe. Do you share at meetings? If so, is it only about the problem? Or do you share about the solution? The answer to this depends on where you are in your own recovery. I hope this is helpful.