I have decided today that I am done and I am going no contact with him. I told him I was blocking his number and he can go through my mom when it's strictly about the kids. So it's done, his number is blocked and I want peace. He's been using the kids to get to me so I will see going forward if he even contacts my mom to see them. He's dropping out of rehab and says seeing a one on one therapist. As mentioned sober looks like sober and this isn't sober!