Thank you my friends. Dad did not know of their wedding. He does not approve of my friend's lifestyle and has no interest in their lives. But I did tell dad on the phone tonight he will have to change the date, or I can't go. He was actually pretty reasonable about it, for now. It was kind of sad because he said "I figured I'd have about 12 people on my side of the church, now I guess I'll have 10".