i know they have to be willing but now back under my roof I have no alternative but to call it out and offer help today or cant live here it was and is my boundary drug free home......I realized how he is beating me at drug test because he has been trying on his own with suboxone and that doesn't show up in a drug test I hate this disease and that came from one of his best friends who is not willing to do intervention cause he is a kid himself but makes sense that I am not crazy