"...I am doing everything I can to make things right. I started a fundraiser through 'Kickstarter' to help try and return the funds to my band..."
Often times I tick folks off with what I say here, but quite frankly, like good ole Scarlett, I don't give a damn. That being said, it's good that you want to make things right, but if collecting donations on Kickstarter to make repayment is how you're really going about this.........if you owed me $$ I wouldn't accept money from someone who owed me if they got it donated to them on Kickstarter; it should be from YOU (save; put $$ aside from each paycheck, but donations.....?) That wouldn't be you paying folks back; it would be from your Kickstarter friends, and they aren't the ones who owe the $$.
(o: