I'll check into the DISARM and change plan worksheet, as I haven't made it that far in my workbook yet. Looks like I have a ways to go. I checked them out online but I think the workbook will explain what I should do with the information a bit better. That's right--I am NOT patient, but looks like I need to be patient with this process.
Tursiops999 I love that analogy...I'm going to write that in my journal to refer to when times get tough. I now realize how a journal may benefit me in this process. Thanks schnappi99 and all others who responded. I have a few things to think about now.
One other thing, can you go to meetings if you are still drinking?