it happens....in the process...geez i am using that word an awful lot these days!!! i think it is a good thing though...i mean think about it....if you felt that feeling with the first person that came along--or every person that came along---you wouldnt be capable of knowing what love feels like to you. take the companionship, (as long as you dont lead anyone on), and one day.....sur..........prise..!...you will both feel that feeling thats been missing!!!