Friend of Bill- I think you need to tone it down on saying anything about'self pity' Chronic pain is a horrible thing to try to cope with. I had severe migraines for many years and with small children it is a nightmare to try to care for them when you are in pain. I think a little compassion would go a lot further than thinking every thing has an solution. Have you ever been on your own and trying to deal everyday with small childrn, pain and money problems. It is a very stressful situation.
Hugs and prayers for you nmamommy. Are you under a doctor's care for the pain? dax