Originally Posted by dandylion

;My friend....in my opinion, you are waking on verrry thin ice, right now.....
it doesn't sound, to me, that he is putting his recovery very high......
And, I think you KNOW it....

Your battle is with yourself, right now. 3 months is not enough time to even get over the grieving of the lost fantasy for the relationship.....
sleeping with him is the worst thing that you can do---in term of your own welfare! There are hormones...oxytocin...a bonding hormone that is excreted by the pituitary in females, at the time of intercourse that makes the desire to "stay" very, very strong......

If you go back....you know what will happen.....
You won't be a victim...you will be a volunteer....especially, knowing what you KNOW.....

I hate to be so blunt...but, there is just no way to sugar-coat it--that I can think of...lol...

Please try to think of your happiness in the BIG PICTURE of your life...

dandylion