Originally Posted by
snarky 
Thanks. Im not incredibly religious but I think taking some time to reflect will be good for me. It's too bad I can't tell my hubby. I have to come up with some lies as to why I'm not at the pub with him
Hmm, that seems like a pretty short term solution. Why can't you just tell him? (Although saying that it took a a week of so of sneaking to meetings before I was ready to talk to my OH about it. I kind of wanted to be secure in what I wanted before he got the chance to poo poo the idea and try and talk me out if it). Life got a lot easier when he knew where I was going though.