IMO, a lot of it would depend on what the current circumstances are with the divorce. If your drinking is an issue that could come back to haunt you in a custody battle then I think attending meetings and continued sobriety would only help you. On the other hand, if your drinking has not been thrown into the fray yet then meetings could be an admission of a problem. But whatever the current situation is your continued sobriety is paramount for you and your child. So that should be your first concern.