Hi Kersyn - I'm sure other people here are better suited to give advice or guide you, but I wanted to answer one thing you said. You asked if you should suggest or demand he get help. I think you can suggest, but if you demand you'd need to be ready with a consequence. If you demand and he doesn't do it, you'd need to be ready to put him out of the home and not let him back. Don't make an empty threat, whatever you do. Only demand if you're ready (and maybe you're not and I have no judgment about that) to follow through. All my best wishes to you.