I relate a lot.
My hubby was the same in the beginning. It's like they don't get it.
Remember this is not up to them, it's about us.
It's very annoying when they do this so we need to be firm and have the conversation. I've had it several times and he is finally starting to get it.
Stay strong girl! You are doing the work and you should be very proud.
Stay close. We are here with you.