Yea you're probably right. I don't expect anything I just go with the flow these days. It's just frustrating when you're trying to do the right thing and still get crap for it. I know I've messed up all kinds of stuff. I've admitted all of my wrongs and I know I'm at fault for many things. I don't expect her to get over things in my early sobriety if at all. I did some pretty messed up stuff.
Sigh man I don't know. Even if I wanted to drink right now I couldn't. Bracelet on my foot says I can't or I go to jail for 180 days. NO THANK YOU
Originally Posted by
mecanix It sounds to me like she's blowing off steam , why not let her .. you don't have to act or fix anything , just listen and be present .
Keep on with your sober plan and try and keep your serenity ..
Maybe plan in some kind of pampering session for her or write her a letter telling you lover her and her support is great ..
When i was an active alcoholic i hurt everyone close to me and myself , drove them away .
Keep on , things will change for the better even though it's painful getting there sometimes .
Bestwishes, m