I know at some point last year someone here on SR corrected me when I said I'd been "trying to quit" for 13 years. They said I HAD been quitting, I just didn't stay quit. I kinda wonder if that was you as I know we've had some good conversations here. Anyways, whoever said it to me, it's made a big difference in my mindset since then. Thanks for the helpful post today, FreeOwl!