Originally Posted by
firstymer 
Earthsteps, may I make a suggestion? Talk to a divorce attorney asap. Sometimes, the one who files first can have an advantage, especially on issues relating to custody.
Good luck. We are pulling for you.
I agree. Please tread carefully. Are you moving out and leaving the kids with him? That may give him an advantage in a custody dispute.
Congrats on 27 days, that's huge, keep with it!