Originally Posted by
Priya5 
Sorry to read that Thlayli. When you say that you can only feel safe for 18 - 24 months, do you mean that you are under threat when he is drinking?
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Not physically. I mean more emotional/financial stability. I am the rock in our marriage and it's wearing on me. I can't lean on him when I'm stressed b/c I'm told to suck it up yet when he gets stressed it's legit to quit a job and I don't earn enough to support us both.