my soon to be ex(a great mother to our kids) has friends we go to concerts with we usually go to a bar where they get 3 to 5 drinks and then as soon as we get to the show they go right to the bar for more drinks and then they miss about 30% of the concert going back and forth to the bar and I am the designated driver. I have been friends with this group for 30 years and I am glad it is over.