Lucy....you ask if it is " o.k. to feel upset".......
My answer is---Yes. All feelings are real and valid to the person who feels them. Our feelings bel
ong to us..we own them...and they are as real as real....
Feelings don't need (or shouldn't) be subjected to a group vote for approval or not....
Now....how an individual handles their feelings is another topic...lol....
I think you have suffered a lot of loss during the recent past......
My heart goes out to you...
dandylion
I think it is human to feel hurt when they have been slighted in some way if it is from those that are significant in their life....and, a work group fits that category in most peoples' lives.