Thanks, everyone. This site helps me so much -- I'm on every day reading, even if i don't post.
This is a blessing in the way that he has to be off the roads before he hurts someone. I pray everyday for God to help him and maybe now he will seek the help he needs.
Dandylion - I never thought of it like that, but I think you're right about saying no is an expression of how much i care about him. Thank you!