Originally Posted by soberaccountant

3 days and fell off? Get up, brush yourself off, and try again. Sobriety is about progress, not perfection. If you expect to be perfect then you will fail.

As for your significant other, you say she won't let you go emotionally or financially? I have a feeling that you're not letting her go emotionally or financially. If that person is driving you to this point, you need to make the move to cut them off completely.

My ex nearly destroyed me emotionally until I let them go. It wasn't until I realized I was allowing them to hurt me and that I was the enabler that things started to get better for me.