you said it once- he knows. he's probably in denial and if he can convince you to act like it ain't there -then it won't be there. but you don't need to repeat yourself- something about if you do you are probably saying it to convince yourself!!! so hold your ground and keep doing what you are doing for yourself!-there are 1 and one half billion men in the world-(i just read that last night in the getting them sober book) - surely he ain't the only fish in the sea. jmho.